oh, and just because he stayed in your bed one night, doesn't mean they will all the sudden just be back in your bed. so him not going back tells nothing imho. this is an experience of ups and downs, even when you think things are going good. that's just how it is. it's the average of your ups and downs that you must gauge.
are you taking 2 steps forward and 1 step back, or 2 steps back and 1 step forward? if the average movement is going in the right direction, then you are okay. you must not measure this in terms by day, it must be measured in terms of weeks and months.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
