I'm furious. He made my decision for me today. Yesterday I was thinking that I'll ignore (for now) his "giving our company's services for free" to OW's company.

I mentioned that he went to see her this week and now bombards me with cc emails to prove to me that he is working. So today he cc's me a message to our production guy discussing OW's company job. WTF. Despite going dark this week (while he is visiting her) I was just boiling and fired off an email:

"WHAT THE H***!!!!!!!!! why are you sending me an email discussing how diligently is Paul working on HER STUPID STUFF while our business can’t pay it’s bills and it’s just about to go under. Have you no shame?"

His reply:

I am sorry, it was not very sensitive on my part, I am truly sorry.... I just didn’t see it. Please, I am just keeping you in the loop with anything pertaining the business and wanted to get your feedback on the new home page idea.

My reply:

So Paul was working on it for free as well, how nice of him WTF

No reply from him

So our company is hosting her site - for free, doing a job for her - for free. Well I'm sure our production guy is nor doing it for free, I have to look through his billings to see how much he is charging us for it (it will probably be disguised as a different job).

OK so I got angry, but he can only make an idiot out of me for so long. I don't have to take everything. Sometimes I have to let him know how that I have limits.

I think that when comes back I will address this issue with him further. I want some respect.

GRRRRRRRR

M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO