What allowed that? Good question. Really listening to him in MC I think. Owning my issues and then letting him speak his feelings. Then being home with him with lack of fear - feeling truly "as if" we are reconciled (instead of threatened by abandonment, anger, etc).
Write that down somewhere...that's a tunnel with CHEESE in it.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
