seperated a year

[newmama]

I know that now I could do NC I just don't want to! yet

But you are right to NOT bring up going to family events. And mystery is always good!

And how are you checking his phone usage?I mean how can handle seeing that? To me, he is in a relationship (affair) w/ someone else and so why bother looking at this stuff?

And NC is definitely going to get him to think about you!