One of my favorite success stories is a man who came here b/c his W had given "the" speech. She had been in a PA with OM, was pregnant, and in an EA with a different OM. The LBH did not know if it was his baby or OM's but he wanted to save his M and keep the baby whether it was his or not. He DBed his behind off and his W gave up both men, stayed in the M and had a baby girl. He wrote me not long ago and told me that they were doing great and that he would never forget the principles he learned.....and continued to use.
I figure if his could survive, anyone's can. You can read several under the forum that has the success stories. However, everyone doesn't post their story.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
