What allowed that? Good question. Really listening to him in MC I think. Owning my issues and then letting him speak his feelings. Then being home with him with lack of fear - feeling truly "as if" we are reconciled (instead of threatened by abandonment, anger, etc).
New goals - I have posted on the other thread = but need refining I will get back to you soon. Thanks gals for keeping me on track. AFter seven months of DB, I think this is starting to take!
