robx.. You say it like it is..
Its also about growing the pair of " nuts" that are needed.
It goes against my grain.. Its not who I am, but I realize what your saying.. I need to be counter-intuitive if I am going to have a chance at this.

ROBX, if you in my shoes, would you go on the trip with her knowing that the kids would want thier mother to be there as well?
I dont know how you post someelse's comment.. so I copied and pasted.

Originally Posted By: cesco

You see, we get along great for the most part. We live together, sleep in same bed, have dinner together as a family almost every night, but there is that void!...


ROBX reply:
Yes we're like FRIENDS, the kind of FRIENDS where a woman can be free to be friendly to you without having to worry about any romantic implications or sexual attraction or anything like that ;-)

You're being a great FRIEND.

MY reply: I dont ask her to sleep in our bed, she just goes there. Do I tell her, see ya, sleep on the couch its not what you want, so beat it? in a nice way of course...

Whats your thoughts ?

M 43 W 43
S15 S 12 D 10
ILYBNILWY ( Dec 2009)
Sleeping separate rooms April 8 2010.
Sep as of 07/14/2010
W moving out 07/31/2010
No OM confirmed ( yet)