One of the absolutely best things you can do with a WAW is to become less available.
Why does this work like this? Reading the book and so many of the posts here the same theme comes up. Why does being unavailable work? I gotta say it is very difficult to do. The hardest of the suggestions is not telling her I love you, but this is not much easier. Do not get me wrong, I am willing to do it for our relationship if that is what it takes, but why does it work so I can have a reason in my head?
