OK you're on rr22. Starting today, March 9 through March 30.
It is probably going to come in handy as next week is the one year anniversary of the bomb.
More positive movement: If H doesn't blow up at me by the end of the day, then I KNOW we're on the right track. This is a biggie: Last night when taking the garbage bins to the street, I accidentally left my keys and my cigarettes on the hood of my car. Anyone who has read my sitch for any length of time knows these are two BIGGIES for H - keys OUT IN THE OPEN RIGHT IN FRONT OF THE HOUSE?! and SMOKING?!?! These are the kind of airheaded things I do that drive H nuts and lead him into all kinds of tyrades about how irresponsible I am and crazy and unsafe for our son - etc.
H leaving for work grabs them, hands them to me and makes a joke. Not one of those demeaning jokes, but a light joke. No anger. He said "Here's a bum's lottery ticket" as he handed me my stuff.
Then he said he is going to try to come home tonight, EVEN THOUGH ITS NOT HIS NIGHT.
Ok, now I know either hell froze over or we are on the right path. I'm really feeling it. I'm still very cautious, have all my boundary tools ready, but I"m excited!
