2 years later it's still not getting easier

[whitneypinch]

I agree 100%.
I have seen it with my friends that have divorced and remarried.
They ALL say the same thing. "If I had known how hard my second marriage would have been I would have worked harder on my first marriage."
They DO just trade one set of problems for a different set.
Second marriages are not better, just different.
Unfortunately our EXs have to figure that out on their own and it's usually too late.

Hey everyone, we are all doing the best we can and should be proud that we are at least trying.

I have never been more thankful in my life than to have the two wonderful kids that I have.