Somedays I feel like being a hardass and say, screw this!. if this is what you want then, BYE BYE!.... but I want my family together.
Interesting thought, sometimes this MALE instinct comes up inside your head that says be a MAN and take charge of this situation but you suppress it because being NICE (and dishonest about how you're being treated) to your wife will one day get you what you want.
