I asked her to do it for God, not for me. Take the chance and trust that God will take care of all of your feelings for you. But it was pretty fruitless. She even said she was thinking the other day "Who said the Bible is a closed book? What if God is saying to Himself, 'You know, I don't think the same way as I did when that book was written, I have some different ideas now.'"
LOL! Yeah I'm sure God says to himself "I'm thinking differently today then I was yesterday, interesting that an omnipotent and omniscient (all knowing) God would really waver back & forth every day on decisions he's made in the past.
She's in her WAW fog and she isn't coming out anytime soon.
Observe reality.
You're still applying male logic to female emotion and that will never work.
In her emotional state she will rationalize every decision she makes as being ok because she's in love with her feelings, you've had to have noticed this by now.
Stop pursuing, stop R talk, move in the opposite direction.
Seriously, waiting around for her is not going to get her back into your arms & heart - how could it?
You're there and you'll always be there for her, she knows this, just as she knows water is wet and we need air to breathe, it's 100% solid fact to her.
To change your current reality and reach her emotionally, you have to somehow affect her emotionally.
How does her interaction with the OM affect you? You feel jealous a little bit, he has what you once had and still want. He's now spending time with YOUR kids and she rationalizes it as OK.
Date other women. Don't flaunt it in front of her but go out and boost that confidence of yours by meeting other women, social interaction with other women will do what nothing you've tried thus far will ever do, it will boost your confidence and ego, it will put you on level playing ground with her, she will notice you're no longer pursuing and that you are out more often then you were previously and then at one point through no overt act of your own, she will find out that you've started moving on and dropped your attachment to her.
That is what will wake her up, that will be the way to reach her emotional state.
She controls you, women who control men have no interest in them whatsoever - internalize that and remember it. She can't respect you and she definitely can't love you regardless if you tell her to ask God to help her love you. That's like asking her to eat a huge plate of food that she hates most in the world but telling her it's ok and to ask God for assistance while doing it.
That would never work.
Observe reality and do what works.
Otherwise continue posting on this forum asking for advice or opinions on recent interactions but know full well that your situation won't change until you take action to change it.
