What do you know about this marriage counselor? Who selected her/him? What is his/her counseling methods? Any experience with infidelity?
My MC is a strong MWD follower, and very strongly pro-marriage. You'd be surprised (saddened? shocked? outraged?) by how many actually AREN'T pro-marriage, but I would never head into any joint MC session without largely knowing what stance(s) they are going to take, ahead of time.
Much like the President of the United States doesn't go into a foreign negotiation without his advance team forging broad agreements AHEAD of time, so must a betrayed spouse head into MC sessions with the utmost of caution and planning.
