One of the problems I see, and one I am guilty of as well, is using this board as a sort of personal form of communication
I understand being in the mix of nastiness and despair and needed any kind of comfort possible
so my comment I guess is to us "old timers"
I think our posting should be more about DBing and less about pages of stuff no one gets but the person replying back and forth with us...that can better be accomplished in some other forum.
There are several people I check on several times I have been asked to reply or respond to someone
but
my journey is now not about MLC or surviving the divorce
it is about day to day life
which should be what most of us old timers lives are about
