Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

[newmama]

H said it was over and I had to start living like it was and if he decided to come around bonus if not it allowed me to see I could be strong and I would be ok.

Then this makes even better sense to "stick it to him" and "make him eat his words" with NC!

I have never been told the above BUT I don't think it is because your H doesn't love you still! He actually was being nicer to you by not giving you hope...mine has just been silent.