Invinceable

[MichelleLT]

You have not become some raging lunatic. He's projecting his own sense of failure and insecurity onto you. He's projecting his own anger at himself onto you.

Do not let him define you.

You are a wonderful loving understanding sweet person.

He is dealing with the fallout from his actions. The loss of his career, the loss of his jobs, the loss of his family. It's not your job to save him, nor is it your job to teach him a lesson or make him feel guilty.

Just ignore his crap. Wait for a good time to file for CS.

Live your life in the meanwhile.

You are not screwed up.