Simple mantra for ya: "If you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you've always gotten."
Clearly understood at this point, no doubt, and I repeat something similiar to myself daily..
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she is to contact me by email, not phone. Just sick of hearing her.
I think as lbs this is actually better for us, NC gives us time to focus on ourselves, and email is as close to NC as we can get for most things, as it's not immediate, can be delayed to work through an emotion, etc.
Thanks again for checking in Gardener, hope all is well with ya!
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."