Fast track to her divorcing me

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I couldn't agree with this anymore.............

No, usually in a break-up, the "closure" conversation where understanding is accomplished doesn't happen until enough time has passed. And usually that closure convo is a lead in to a reconciliation. It's when the WAS (or g/f b/f) has had enough time to reflect and feel guilty about their actions and wants to make it right. The LBS (or g/f or b/f) doesn't get to dictate when/if the closure convo happens because they did not initiate the action of breaking up. It has to come from a place of true remorse and desire to set things right. JMO, go ahead and crucify me if you think I'm wrong.

Well put.