Another strange thought as I was driving home last night. What if W called and said she wanted to work on things? I realized I have no idea how I'd respond. Would I be the old Clinging and immediately start pushing, pushing, pushing? Would I let my bitterness surface and make her grovel?
Do you have any reason to expect this or are you just fantasizing? If you think there's any chance (?) be prepared with something like, "Well, this certainly is unexpected. Let me think about this for a few days and call you back."
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
