That is so good that the superintendent and everyone is trying to work together, despite the bad economy. It's been pretty bad in our local district with the superintendent and other upper people taking raises and bonuses, all the while cutting teachers, the libraries, etc. So sad for the kids.
No good about H. I'm sure he is just trying to figure out what he wants in life in a very short time, but it doesn't help the situation to just avoid it. You've done your part to try to encourage communication, so it really is in his hands now. It's sad to sit back and watch him throw his life away, but he has the chance to make it all right, yet he continues to choose not to. We all have the ability to change (despite what he thinks he knows about pyschology - as you and me are both proof of & as are actually many of us here on this site), he just has to be willing to. Hope he can realize that. His life is in his hands right now and it is definitely his decision to make. He can't force this decision on you b/c it is pretty black and white for once - either come home & no OW, or don't come home & D (although him coming home is still tricky b/c you will have to confirm that there really is no OW, but on the good side, he does seem set on not coming home & hurting you again). But either way, you are strong!
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10
