I will and ask on that locally and get back to you if I need those videos. I will continue to pray for the people on these boards and for you also that you end up where God wants/needs you to be for yourself, W and family.
The progress with my W is mind blowing. I feel so full of life and energy that I feel guilty. Can life really be this great when I see and read others feeling so awful?
I was there at the bottom full of despair. With help I started to become stronger and more self sufficient. Certainly with peaks and valleys (what I like to call good days and bad ones) I became un-pathetic (?) and moved on to being a good human and good father.
When it works out fully with my wife, as I know it will, I will try to get her in the long run to come with me (who knows she may be first to ask me to do this) and help with Retrouvaille in some manner, maybe that's my/our ministry.
To anyone reading this, I cannot explain how valuable this program and experience is to marriage, any marriage. Beg, borrow and steal (jk) to get your spouse to this program.
My heart goes out to the suffering people here but I sit here with overwhelming joy in my life.
TBL now equals "Toward Better Love" M-44 W-42; 2 kids; married 11 years 1st bomb 10-08, reconcile 12-08 2nd bomb 8-09, moving toward reconcile 3-7-10
