Okay.. I see it..

Thinking ahead = wasted energy cuz it hasn't happened and not sure it will

H in school = his problem to report or not.. my feelings on the matter are irrelevant to my life as it is his to own...

Whole thinking thing last night = wasted energy as I wasn't concentrating on the one thing I can control... ME

Anger re: school - my problem to work out and get rid of because anger is toxic to ME (and wasted energy)

I realized that I was angry at H for going to school NOW when I had been trying to encourage him for years to try it...

No 2x4s necessary... but splinters welcome as I'm building a boat to sail away on vacation... grin

~ This Diamond now SHINES!! ;-p ~

My Sitch in MLC - http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Main=45253&Number=1901148#