2 years later it's still not getting easier

[whitneypinch]

Hi,
Just click on my name and it should show you other threads.
I doubt my threads will be able to help you much.
Really, all of this is in our ex's hand. They really decide how they want to treat us.
Of course we can do things to make it worse. That is where DBing comes into play.

I think if we did not have kids this would all be much easier. I just believe we are a family and you do everything you can to work it out. I never even had the discussion. She just left one day.