I don't think she is saying one person needs to lead the way but collectively (we) need to lead the way.
OP,
Reread the posts please....
Originally Posted By: HeartsBlessings
I didn't know that requirement of coming back for awhile to help meant that I was supposed to be toting a diaper bag plus bottles and baby food! LOLOLOLOLOLOL!!
HB,
While you said not to be offended, THIS was a truly callous and rude comment. Offensive to every single person on these boards. People are at all different stages here and if you really FEEL this way, maybe you should reconsider spending time here…
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