Jeff -

<blush> Thanks! smile I would give him a coronary, because I'm pretty sure, WHEN this thing turns around, he's going to be hearing all of my grievances at gunpoint! LoL (KIDDING!!!)

ST -

I knew I'd get your approval!! Haha

No big TALK planned, just mini-versions of fact-finding, clearing the air, etc... I can't handle a TALK as I'd sob, and then he'd leave. That just doesn't work for us. HOWEVER, if I can handle some talking points, strategically timed between these positive moments, we're in the right direction.

Timeframe? Nope, but I'll definitely think on that!!!

Newmama -

Thanks for the support!!! Don't forget to add AofS to the DB'ing meets love language! I'll be a freakin' self-help FORCE! But, trust me, I'm pretty sure, Mr. NO TALK, isn't waiting for me to bring up the marriage issues. He'd be more apt to start to move towards our "normal" again w/out it ever coming up. Well, THAT is not going to happen. He's going to at least HEAR some things, albeit in a less pushy manner....

Kalni -

Shaddup! LoL It's almost Spring here now. I'll switch over!

Blownaway -

Thanks for the cheer!!!!

Last edited by mindfull; 03/09/10 02:20 PM.

Me-46, D-21, S15, S13

After many years w/my head in the sand...
I FILED
Divorced 6/2011

The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.