You guys are ridiculous again. I see the words "We were invited to a wedding", that means she was invited too. It is not in the power of the invitee to uninvite invited guests. You want to say that someone is not acting like an adult? Then I would say the person who makes an issue out of every little thing, who makes excuses when politely asked to schedule a talk, and who tries to uninvite an invited guest to someone else's affair, is the childish one.
Marriage, even a rocky marriage should not be a battleground. When his wife does go to a lawyer and seeks a divorce, will he say, "Well, some people who I have never met called Allen A and Maynard told me to act that way, so that's why I did it!"?
Lotus... are you READING what we type or just skimming?
I SAID in the POST to NOT INVITE, I dind't say to UNINVITE...
By NOT invite, I meant and I DID explain myself there to NOT PRESSURE or PURSUE the spouse to attend in any way. I did NOT in ANY WAY suggest to pressure or pursue the spouse to NOT attend
PLEASE READ WHAT WE TYPE before you post. I do NOT have time to correct posts that are misread. I am NOT being mean here, I am being economical with my time. If posts are read carefully, then I wouldn't have to clarify and I could spend that time responding to other posts instead of clarifying posts that were skimmed and as a result misunderstood.
