I think they are confused they must have a lot of emotions attached here and it is such a bif decision and painful for them too
so I think the back and forth is a way for them to try to figure it out unfortunately if its MLC it seems to take a long time so they drift in and out for what seems like months and years even continue to support him and at the same time take care of you get on with your life a lot of it seems to be waiting and changing the changes we keep forever so alone that is worth it oeace
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