I think they are confused
they must have a lot of emotions attached here
and it is such a bif decision and painful for them too

so I think the back and forth is a way for them to try to figure it out
unfortunately if its MLC it seems to take a long time so they drift in and out for what seems like months and years even
continue to support him and at the same time take care of you get on with your life
a lot of it seems to be waiting and changing
the changes we keep forever so alone that is worth it
oeace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow