My husband is addicted to an emotional affair

[awest1217]

Make sure you are not ignoring H. Ignoring and going dark are two different things. If he contacts you, make sure you respond. You don't need to tell him everything, be mysterious, but it is ok to give him a little something. The key is that he has to contact you. You shouldn't initiate anything, but if he asks how you are doing or some other question. There is no reason not to respond. Or if you want to wait a while and respond later that is good as well, but it is important that you respond at some point.