Ugh, somehow I thought another post was the most recent. Let me start over:
meghunny, you have to get saddled in. This is a long ride. Even if he has a change of heart, there's further to go from there. Every day will be awkward for a while as you try to fit yourselves into each other's lives again. When he gets home is NOT going to be the end, no matter what he decides. It will only be an extremely stressful day. And you can't expect his mind to be made up THAT day either. Just be polite and courteous while he's there. And I definitely recommend being away from home as much as possible when he gets back - you'll both need a lot of space to get away from the tension.
Me: 26 Ex: 27 Son: 5
Divorced: 3/2010 Each day is another opportunity to do it right.
