Just got home and noticed that W was here today...w/ golf on Sun never got around to the locks. Her coffee cup was out. I believe she checked my history and did some reading- b/c the DB site was expanded w/ all the threads I had posted in.
Nothing here is a secret, yes its anonymous but not like I'm making things up...anyone have any recommendations if she indeed discovered our thread?
Bet your W is jealous of all the support you're getting here while she's faltering looking for someone to approve of her R. You're doing the right thing, it's tough doing the wrong thing. Oh yeah and CHANGE YOUR LOCKS. Your place is no longer her business or her place. She doesn't have the right to be there. Whether she (or you) like it or not. You can't barge into her place, why offer her the same luxury?
As far as I'm concerned, you're welcome to start taking the advice I just posted to whitney down in DBND. Her foundation is cracking and she's ready for a little dose of the medication I prescribed there.
Me: 26 Ex: 27 Son: 5
Divorced: 3/2010 Each day is another opportunity to do it right.
NC is still in effect. Making B-day plans this wkend w/ my friend whom shares the same B-day. Gotta clean up a bit around the house this evening.
There's an interesting article this morning on marriages on MSN, they quote MWD within the text...
In the early years of my marriage, I envisioned our lives as being joined at the hip. He didn't," she says. "At first I was miserable, but then I started going places by myself and I became much more independent. I never, ever would have done that had it not been for his stubbornness."
Feeling pretty good today, Dr.s appt is contingent on a cancellation, not sure if I need the meds now, but I've also said that before months ago.
Not much else going on, still have love for my W, but no longer reeling in my head about timing, what ifs, or yea buts...starting to compartmentalize things and be better focused at work.
There was a sitch yesterday...this female coworker whom is a b&*ch was ranting about some stuff, I challenged her and she accused me of not doing my job (I cant do mine until she finishes hers...) she commented right infront of my boss, "I can see why your W cheats on you..."
When she left the office I told my boss this was the 2nd time she's made a comment like that and if she does it again, I cannot be held rsponsible for what I will say to her.
She is a single mom, never married and there is a HUGE reason why the man left her, I love women and have a lot of respect for single mothers, and mostly anyone I meet, but this individual is SATAN himself...
My boss was understanding and said he'd speak to her...
