do not pursue- listen to the message W gave you- it's the truth...I also believe there is some script but the messages were sincere- she wants to be challenged, and wants you to let go
Hard things to accept- but do it anyway-
At x-mas this year, W just wanted to have a nice day...I became so emotional thinking it was our last (probably was) and did everything wrong- I ruined her x-mas by putting my needs first, AGAIN
Its tough to do, but give her the space to miss you and start to embrace not being w/ her- you will starte to exude confidence and the power struggle will shift