He says it's over and does not want to reconcile...
But I am doing my best to DB in the hope he changes his mind.
Either way, I don't think I am legally obliged to do co-parenting sessions. We've not gone down any legal path at all (yet - and hopefully not ever).
The boundary issue is important to me because I don't know how much I can accept. He wants to move interstate and then overseas eventually. It seemed to me if I at least knew if there was another person still involved or not , I could get my head around a least a part of it.
The idea for me today is about being able to trust this person enough to let him back into my life even if it's to coparent and not get back together. The bomb was dropped only recently and I am due soon - emtionally I am struggling with acceptance & combining that will allowing him into my life for baby's sake. If there was no baby, I wouldn't have to see him in co-parent counseling and I could go full-on NC.
Me 36; H 40 baby born in May M:13, T:15 Bomb (OW): Dec 09 began DBing: Feb WH overseas with OW old: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2027369#Post2027369
