Like the others who've posted here we are strangers, I haven't read your sitch and don't know a lot about the place where you find yourself now, other than to say I have been there to.
8 months ago my wife of 23 years up and left me and our 3 kids for another man. Just went!
For such a very long time I felt that I had failed my family in some way, that there was something wrong with me and that the world would be a better place without me in it.
It took me a long time and a lot of outside help and encouragement to realize that this wasn't my fault and that I shouldn't punish myself and my loved ones for something I didn't do. My family and friends deserve better than that.
I came to see that I'm a person of value, I'm worthy of love and friendship, I would not have been put on this Earth otherwise. Each and every one of us have a special contribution to make to the people we love and care about.
Destiny, Trust that you are not alone, there IS hope, there IS a Life for you at the end of this.
If you need Help, PLEASE don't be afraid to ask.
I will be praying for you.
H: 44 W: 42 Married: 23 years Bomb: 16/07/2009 PA Confirmed: 16/01/2010 Over it & working on ME: Feb'ish 2010
