Congratulations on the promotion...I am so happy for you. This will open many positions for you and create opportunities that you might not have had as a MSgt...and the pay increase, both active and retired is nice!
You are doing the right things for you daughter...
Your wife has not done what she needs to do…give her some time. You need to set a deadline for yourself on how long you will accept her behavior. She doesn’t need to know the deadline just that you have one. Clearly explain your expectations and accept nothing less…be realistic on your internal timeframe.
You are not going to wake up tomorrow and everything is fine.
