alterior motive staying married would be to torture me, keep my life on hold while he figures himself out, i really have no clue. he knows i will take him out if he does so mething with my credit.

his taking my credit card was excused by him saying it was for things we needed. whatever, then should have asked....


Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline