Anyone have any advice on my previous question

I had asked earlier if I should consider this time away somewhat of a separation? I guess I'm trying to gauge the timing of things to see when I should try this or that, if I should consider when I get home the beginning of the separation? It seems logical to count this time apart, but I could be wrong.


Married 18
Me 39
W 37
D 15
D 5
Divorce Filed 8 April 2010
Beginning of Reconcile 8 Sept