You are right- you busted the divorce; time to work on your marriage! Good point that they are really 2 different goals.
So it will be interesting to see if he brings up the R soon! Or will you? It reminds me of like when we met our spouses and one of us wanted the other to say "I love you" first. Well I made myself wait for him but we BOTH wanted to say it all along! So maybe your H is, or has been, waiting for you to bring up your marriage issues?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
