Because, sorry, if he doesn't, then I don't think he has to be transparent with you. But I DO UNDERSTAND that you would not want contact with him while he is not clear about what he wants- you or the OW! Are there legal issues if you refuse co-parenting sessions or can you do whatever you want?
Last edited by newmama; 03/09/1005:16 AM.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004