The impact on son has scared me enough to take this NC VERY seriously. Do I still need to send the NC email?
I was thinking that he will know that his "joking" about being on a date would be the reason that I don't want to talk to him. I dunno...the NC email could be beneficial or just make it more of a game to him.
BTW...to address what you wrote above, husband has said that he manipulates everything and everyone. That he manipulates OW (the one he has a child with) and introduces a third party (not sure about his one...apparently another OW) to neutralize the situation. I wrote about this in one of my earlier posts under newcomers...I will post in later. Husband says that he tells people what he knows they want to hear in order to play the game.
Me: 28 H: 32 1st marriage 4 both 1 1/2 year married 2gether for 9 1S: 6months 1stepson: 2yo