And, guess what happened at home last night. I had changed to go to bed. I had on a baby-doll style shortie night-gown, a bit, okay a lot, low cut. He totally checked me out. This is a first in a few ways... He was actually IN OUR room at bedtime, and not off w/the boys, falling asleep elsewhere, then stumbling in mid-night. And, he actually noticed me!
I am so so so proud of you!!! look at you go! this is amazing mind, and you will be rewarded for it, I know. You have learned your H's needs and you are fulfilling them, as well as being yourself and taking care of yourself, and beginning to love yourself and having fun too.
love it!!! I'm so excited for you
and him checking you out, of course! your a beautiful woman and I promise he is attracted to you. IMHO, he is just stuck in the limbo like you have been. BUT, your making some moves that he has not expected and it's going to allow him to break out of some shells...not quickly, but slowly he will break out of it.
Have you given yourself a time frame on this new "strategy"? I think you should give yourself a goal, and then when that time comes, look back and see if you have progressed or not.
I also think that because you are making these changes, that it would be better to hold off on that "talk" until some time has passed to see the affects...at the least, 3 weeks, imho. but definitely still make plans to have the "talk"
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
