What Now?

[flowmom]

I'm liking the "truth dart" take on it. Your H is falling down as a parent and I don't blame you for taking off the DB robot mask and letting him have it. It also reminds him that you have feelings too, and worries about your children. H hasn't seen my feelings for over 2 months so I don't know if he even remembers that I have any.

There was a WAH/MLC who posted here a few years ago (happy_again) who reconciled and talked about how great his W did with DBing, but she definitely set boundaries and sometimes openly expressed her feelings.

You are not on a straight path that you move forward or back on, so I don't think that this can be viewed as a setback.

If he responds to your email, if there's any content regarding parenting, I would try to respond to that part in a calm, constructive way and ignore the rest.