Well sgt finally said to start a new thread for those of us with super long ones! SO here is the link to my old one:

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1872827#Post1872827


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004