Glamgirl thank you for your input I'm flip-flopping on this one. One minute I think the way you do - just let it go... and then I think this is not right, he can't do this, this disrespects me as his business partner and as his wife, he has to be put straight. He makes me feel like a doormat.
However you have a very good point - if I make an issue out of this he will not see the situation as any other rational person would see it. Anything and everything that he is doing these days he seams to think that he is entitled to and justified.
Originally Posted By: glamgirl
Mila Be his friend and love him from a far, but you don't need to give advice or listen to him in regards to his affairs with ow if that makes sense. He seems to confide in you and wants to share that side of his life with you. I wouldn't want to be in the middle of that.
You are absolutely right, he wants to tell me more then I want to hear about OW. I'm trying to keep boundaries and I cut him of when he goes down that path. That's something I have to work on - the fine balance of being just enough of a friend to DB. And it's hard for me because I'm kind of the nurse/caretaker type.
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
