"Seriously, calling up to make some joke that he's on a date? Does he honestly think that's funny? He's married, what kind of perverse joke is that?

Hmmm... maybe he was drunk, do you think he'd been drinking?

You need to SERIOUSLY stop the pursuit and end contact with this guy for now... until you can control yourself .. otherwise yoru child is at risk being exposed to that."

I had to address ^ this separately. This scares me that his behavior will affect our son. No, I do not want my son in that type of environment. This is something that my dad mentioned tonight when I was trying to convince him to talk with husband on a regular basis. He said that husband is providing an unstable environment for his grandson and that I need to be very cautious to protect son from that. I feel sick to my stomach to think how my son could be affected by my actions as well as husbands. This is not about me. Like I told mb28, NC with my husband is now about my son. I have to be that stable parent in his life.


Me: 28
H: 32
1st marriage 4 both
1 1/2 year married
2gether for 9
1S: 6months
1stepson: 2yo