Good thing you are not holding your breath. You would be blue in the face by now.
Just because they threaten doesn't mean they'll carry through..they'd rather NOT be the "bad guy"...He would rather YOU carry it through, and since you're not going to do that, that I know of...I don't look for him to carry it through..but then again, I could be wrong, have been before. LOL!!
OP is right; it is only a piece of paper, but most people view it as the end of the world.
I can just HEAR IT now from the "Powers that "think" they be"(LOL!!)..."You never had to deal with that, so, how would you know?"
Well, I have dealt with many who've actually gone through it, and the shock and pain is the same...devastating to many. A feeling they've "failed" when that is NOT true.
No one can control what someone else is going to do, it doesn't matter if we'd done it ALL right, things could STILL happen out of our control.
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OP- I know, I know...I keep telling myself that! I do look good in blue though! lol
I'm glad you can joke about it, though, CW. I'm praying your husband will "see the light" and NOT that of an oncoming train, but a light that will begin to lead him out and back to you.
I STILL say you're a strong lady. And such a sweet one, too.
Have a great evening.
Remember, as each person is different, every MLC/Transition is different..what works for one may not work for another. Most of the time it is trial and error for ALL involved.
