Start of the end..

[Gardener]

iwitw,

Of course, then I look in the mirror and go, oh yeah, I am certainly NOT 25 anymore... LOL

Tell me about it. After 16 months post-bomb I tell people, "Last year I was 55. This year, I look 60-62!"

I don't want to keep repeating the mistakes I keep making though, so that's a work in progress.

Simple mantra for ya: "If you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you've always gotten."

Update from me today, I spoke to L and gave him every detail of information I have, he assures me I am not in jeopardy, so I will trust his word.
I will be speaking to stbxw about anything substantive via email and copying my attorney on communications from now on.

Well, that's good news from L. And although X and I are not contentious, I still am mulling over the idea of telling her I've decided that unless it's urgent or an emergency, she is to contact me by email, not phone. Just sick of hearing her.