How (and who) to expose if OP is not married

[4luv]

Allen,

I guess my wording was pursuit. I just didn't know what was going on with the no contact. Like I said, either way he would turn it around on me. The sociopathic behavior is what my dad has been pointing out. I talked to my dad and he said he would be willing to talk to husband to show him and guide him into what being a man is about but my dad said that my husband is NO WHERE near ready to even begin hearing that part. My dad actually clarified his job...he is a mental health professional with a focus on drug/alcohol recovery. He believes husband exhibits boderline personality disorder with some sociopathic tendancies as well as narcassism.

I feel bad for calling him...I also got the book "Why Men Love Bitches" and in the book it says that sometimes a man won't call just to see how you will respond and to gain reassurance about where he stands with you. I think this may be what my husband was doing. The author also points out that a man not calling gives him the freedom to breathe. The book says that I should have basically acted as though I didn't notice that husband hasn't contacted me.

So you suggest that I send husband an email tonight? I was just not going to answer any of his calls but an email saying why NC might be better and show him how adults do not play games.