Children that grow up with a parent who plays mind games like that grow up to feel TERRIBLY insecure and unloved, they need COMMITMENT and UNCONDITIONAL LOVE, not second guessing and doubt...
The feelings he leaves them with are the ones they CARRY with them into adulthood
Do you want him doing that to your child? Playing head games with your son making your son doubt if he's loved or not? Seriously?
I am sure this man can be very generous and a very hard worker, but the maturity level needs to improve and YOU need to CUT him OUT until it DOES...
Seriously no relationship he has is going to last long anyways... no one will put up with that for very long...
If THAT is his idea of fun, he needs to change... FAST...
i can see why you are so upset, that is a VERY HURTFUL behaviuor to be engaging in with your wife...
He should be leaving you with HOPE and CONFIDENCE and TRUST, not doubts, insecurity, and frustration...
He will leave your child feeling like that... do NOT let him do that...
I am NOT saying he's hopeless, I am NOT saying he's a mosnter, but he NEEDS to CHANGE.. DRASTICALLY if that is his idea of fun... and I haven't even started on this "date" thing.. he has two women who has children with and now he might be dating???
