Wow, I think EVERY LINE you have up there of yours is pursuit.. EVERY LINE
Now this I am on a date thing...
If he tells you outright he's on a DATE, you HANG UP
I don't care if he's joking or if he is serious.. HANG UP
Do NOT call him back.. send him an email and tell him if he wants to say anything he cal contact your father
We both know he wont.
Seriously, you need to set boundaries... if he crosses them, you CUT HIM OUT...
That is how you play that game of his.. he can't play the game if you dont' play along...
I am sorry, but I wasn't aware he was sociopathic like that...
THAT crap needs to STOP as much as the affair does... I can see why he cheats now, its a game fo rhim to avoid getting caught.. its a game for him to get away with it with no consequences...
When you call him and play these games of his you enable the sociopathy and his affair...
Wow.. I am speechless on this one.
Ya, your dad is right, he has a LONG way to go if he thinks calling your wife up whom you cheated on and announce you are on "a date" is funny... that's showing a serious lack of compassion there...
I would send him an email tonight very much like mb28's telling him more or less the same thing
But I would include something to the effect of
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Infidelity is NOT something of amusement, YOU are a PARENT... but your children show more maturity than YOU do... you are NOT FIT to be NEAR them.
And "dating" while you are married is called "cheating". It's disgusting and I don't want our child growing up in that environment EVER... stay away from our son.
Do NOT contact me again until you are prepared to see a FT and start to clean up your act
If you DO find the maturity to accomlish this you can contact my father, children should NOT be exposed to you right now.
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Seriously, calling up to make some joke that he's on a date? Does he honestly think that's funny? He's married, what kind of perverse joke is that?
Hmmm... maybe he was drunk, do you think he'd been drinking?
You need to SERIOUSLY stop the pursuit and end contact with this guy for now... until you can control yourself .. otherwise yoru child is at risk being exposed to that.
