Husband in Crisis - what do I do?

[mishka422]

DU, I'll tell you I don't know your whole story but I understand the way you are feeling. I've been there. Depressed, suicidal, and just looking for a way out.

God has great plans for you and loves you. In the darkest times in our lives, that is when He is holding us.

Isaiah 43:18-19

"The Lord says, 'Forget what happened before, and do not think about the past. It is nothing compared to what I am going to do. For I am about to do something new. See, I have already begun!'".

Psalm 126:5 - For those who sow in tears shall reap with joyful shouting.

[Gnosis]

DU, I've never posted to you and I haven't read your sitch. We're strangers here and I hope I can find the right words to say to you.

There is always hope.
Even in the most dour of circumstances.
When everything looks wrong and fruitless.
That is when we discover our strength.
People have heard your desperate call and we're here for you.

Please, please, please. Get some help.
You are worth it.
You are worthy.

[Dudess]

Dear Destiny Unknown,

I haven't posted to you before either, but my heart goes out to you at this dark time in your life.

You are worthy of respect, value, and compassion, whether or not you get that from your H. You are an innately valuable and precious child of God.

I am sorry that you are in so much pain right now. Despite that pain, there is hope for happiness in your future.

These people understand and can help:

http://www.hopeline.com/gethelpnow.html

You can call, chat, email, whatever works for you.

Please give them a call. You are worth it.

(((hugs to you dear one)))

[trustingfaith]

DU,

We all care about you immensely. Please know we are here for you. Hugs and prayers!

[blownaway65]

Destiny,

Like the others who've posted here we are strangers, I haven't read your sitch and don't know a lot about the place where you find yourself now, other than to say I have been there to.

8 months ago my wife of 23 years up and left me and our 3 kids for another man. Just went!

For such a very long time I felt that I had failed my family in some way, that there was something wrong with me and that the world would be a better place without me in it.

It took me a long time and a lot of outside help and encouragement to realize that this wasn't my fault and that I shouldn't punish myself and my loved ones for something I didn't do. My family and friends deserve better than that.

I came to see that I'm a person of value, I'm worthy of love and friendship, I would not have been put on this Earth otherwise. Each and every one of us have a special contribution to make to the people we love and care about.

Destiny, Trust that you are not alone, there IS hope, there IS a Life for you at the end of this.

If you need Help, PLEASE don't be afraid to ask.

I will be praying for you.

[rr22]

Destiny,

Write your phone number down on here for a friend to call you.

Walk into your minister's office and have a talk with him or her today.

[rr22]

Destiny,

Send an email to:


email: Michele Weiner-Davis - [e-mail]

email: Virginia Peeples - [e-mail]

[DestinyUnknown]

I am overwhelmed with the show of support and care shown in all of the postings. I SINCERELY appreciate your concern. I do know that you all have been where I am now. I have never felt so low or unwanted. I don't know what I want to do. For the first time in my life, I am confused, unsure about why this happened, and what the future holds. That is why I wanted to give up. I have an apppointment today with my IC.

I am not sure what I am going to eventually do - I just know that I feel nothing but sadness. You all have strength that I cannot seem to muster right now. I don't think that my family, the few friends I have, or my my H truly understands what this is doing to me. I feel no one listens or wants to do what is right.

Thank you to my DBing friend last night - thank you for talking with me. And thank you all for all or words of support.

HUGS to you all...

[Mila]

Destiny, I know that you are suffering, my heart goes out to you. I'm sending you my positive thoughts.

There are many people on this board reaching out to you. We all care about you and are very concerned for you. Get back on the board - we need to know that you are OK.

I know that you feel hopeless right now...Just remember that after every dark night comes a beautiful morning. This time of despair WILL pass and you WILL be happy again, it will happen, BELIEVE.

FIGHT GIRL, YOU CAN DO IT !!!!

[blownaway65]

Destiny,

Just take some time to breathe.

You have the strength to get through this, believe me you really do, we all do. Adversity does bring out the best in people.

Just the fact that you're here on the forum shows that you don't want to give up.

For the first time in my life, I am confused, unsure about why this happened, and what the future holds.

Your future will be what YOU make it, YOU can make it a good one, no matter where your sitch takes you.

I have an apppointment today with my IC

This is SOOOO good. Don't be afraid to really let IC know what's going on in your life.

You all have strength that I cannot seem to muster right now

Trust me, it's a very gradual thing but You WILL get there!

I feel no one listens or wants to do what is right.

We are all here for you and will do what we can.

Please stay with us.